I am learning restraint and it’s hard.
I have been an impulsive person all my life and this is exceptionally difficult for me. It does not come naturally to me at all.
But I am determined to. I stand to lose out much more if I don’t. And I am not prepared to do that.
11 comments:
I am intrigued, SO - what prompted this decision to be less impulsive (if you can share)....
what are you putting restraints on dear?
good luck!
(pls to share how you managed when you do, can do with it myself)
I think restraint is a good thing, when it means we could end up feeling guilty abt our actions or hurting another's feelings in the process.
Restraint with showing love and understanding and reaching out to a person cannot be good restrain for us.
Whatever it is that challenges you, hope you rise above it and your own nature. I understand your struggle without the context, because I am an impulsive person myself, but whatever restraint I have developed so far has only been for my good.
I have always been restrained all my life. YOu have no idea how suffocating that is. And I regret lots of things. So I am going to be less restrained from now on. Just letting you know what lies on the other side!!!
But what happened to make you take this decision??
I second childwoman's comment.
hi!
this is from one silent blog to another. It is ok to be less restrained sometimes.
but does learning means one has to practice it? all the time??
I think unrestrained is healthier...really!
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I know how hard this is..heard about 21 day rule? try it helps a lot
I'm with you on this, I need to learn restraint. Big time.
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